P.O.P. The Question!

Have you decided to ask for what you want in life, or are you willing to just sit on the sidelines and watch other people get what they want?  I’ll admit that asking for what you want can be quite intimidating, especially if you are unsure of exactly what you want, who to ask, or how to ask for it.  However, whether in your professional or personal life, asking for what you want is necessary, in order to LIVE an INcredible life! I’ve developed three strategies that you help you to P.O.P. the question: 1.  Be Purposeful.  What is the ultimate goal that you are trying to achieve?  You have know what you want and why you want it!  You have to determine how asking your question is going to help you to achieve your goal.  Having this amount of clarity will help you to better articulate your question and to develop the confidence that you’ll need to ask. 2.  Be Optimistic.  If you don’t believe that it will happen, it probably won’t; and if you don’t think that you deserve it, who else will?  A lack of confidence and self-worth breeds the thoughts of negativity that will cause you to believe that the answer to your question will automatically be a “no”.  Since we attract what we think, you have to begin to release those negative perceptions and thoughts of yourself, and begin to affirm that you deserve, can have, and will accept every good thing that you desire. 3. Be Precise. After you’ve determined why you want whatever it is that you’re willing to ask for and that you can...

Have you claimed your own personal freedom?

We’ve just finished celebrating America’s freedom, but I ask you:  have you truly claimed your own personal freedom?  In order to LIVE an INcredible life, you must be willing to accept and operate with great degree of independence over your life! Are you still entertaining people and unhealthy relationships that you know should have been released from your life long ago?  Are you harboring guilt, unforgiveness, or shame stemming from past life events?  Are you allowing others to dictate how your life should be lived, despite the fact that you believe otherwise?  Are you suffering physically, and allowing your condition to prevent you from experiencing Life, as you’ve always envisioned it?  Are bills and debt causing you to stay in an employment or career situation, which no longer suits you? Are you consumed by your fear of change? The aforementioned questions were designed to encourage you to think about how you are currently living your life, and to provoke you to decide whether change is necessary.  It’s essentially no one’s decision but your own, and it all starts with your mindset!  If you have a desire to LIVE, and there are obstacles and challenges that you’ve allowed to enter into your life that are preventing you from doing so; you must first decide that change is necessary and exactly how committed you are to changing those aspects of your life! Which will you choose?   Chaotic relationships or peaceful, harmonious ones?  Past feelings or present blessings?  Other people’s opinions or your soul’s desires?  Suffering or wholeness?  Fear or Faith? Bondage or...